The main topic of conversation in my apartment, especially lately, is for sure Men.
My roommates and I talk about guys we are dating, guys we wish we were dating, guys we shouldn't be dating. We talk about what we want, what most women want, what we don't want, what we think men want, what we wish men wanted. We have talked about the difference between men and boys and how we wish there were more men in the world and how we are grateful for the few real men out there who actually treat you the way you want to be treated. Sometimes we share stories about the "boys" we have dated and the stupidness that was. Those are fun stories...
We talk about how dumb girls are and how all girls just want a 'bad boy' ...which is totally not true!! We talk about how mad it makes us when stupid girls date amazing guys and how we wish we were dating those amazing guys. We talk about awesome girls who are dating jerks and how she can do so much better. Girls seriously can be sooo dumb sometimes.
I decided that I needed to publicly share with all men, women, boys, and girls, The List that I have came up to determine if you should date or keep dating someone. Both of my lists can and should go both ways. Change she to he and it becomes the husband list. Easy. Some of these are my own ideas and others are things I have happened upon that I really liked. Now, I'm no relationship expert obviously, but I have had successful relationships. (Yes you can have successful relationships even if they don't lead to marriage.)
Don't worry this is nothing like the list I made up when I was in Beehives.
The Wife List
I get extremely frustrated with girls/guys who date stupid girls/guys. There are amazing people out there. PLEASE show yourself some respect and date those who respect you.
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you.